People
tend to be somehow dreamy at this time of the year — when Valentine's Day comes.
For many of people romance and love go beyond the realm of imagination. Their
dreams come true, no matter the circumstances, space, time and distance included.
In our Valentine's Week
issue, we bring you two stories about love and distance – and how the real-life
characters, or perhaps the circumstances surrounding them, have bridged that geographical
gap to bring their lives and hearts together. One
story is about love that started in a plane – where two people were destined to
sit beside each other in a true-life tale. Perhaps the idea is not that original,
or even trite for a plot romantic novel, but it happened and soon love found its
way, linking Luxembourg to the Philippines . The other started in a call center
with a trainor from Canada coming to the city and later discovering a brewing
excitement in the work place that is leading to a post-Valentine's Day a later
date with a bubbly Bacolod girl. Indeed,
it truly works in mysterious ways. No wonder, endless words have been used to
express this particular thought and feeling. We checked out some online sources
on how love is described by others and we came up with the following choices.
Mother Theresa calls love
“the greatest science in the world; in heave and on earth.” Vi Putnam described
it this way: “The entire sum of existence is the magic of being needed by just
one person”. It' works
on the extreme for Michael Leunig: “Love one another and you will be happy. It's
as simple and as difficult as that. Contrary
to the expression that “love is blind”, someone wrote it is not for “it simply
enables one to see things that others fail to see”. What Sam Keen wrote adds substance
to that: “You come to love not by finding the perfect person but by seeing an
imperfect person perfectly.” St.
Bernard of Clairvaux emphasizes the value of inner peace in love. “We find rest
in those we love, and we provide a resting place in ourselves for those who love
us.” Jackson Browne puts more meaning when he said. “Love is when the other person's
happiness is more important than your own.” As the Bible says, “Love bears all,
believes, hopes for and endures all,” with Kahlil Gibran reinforcing the thought
with his line: “And think not you can guide the course of love for love, it finds
you worthy, shall guide your course.” St.
Paul , in his letter to the Corinthians, reinforces the rhyme and reason of love
by writing: Even though I have the gift of all knowledge and faith, providing
the poor with their needs but if I have no love in me, I am nothing. And
here's one that, perhaps, best sums up the rhyme and reason, from an anonymous
source: Love knows no reasons, love knows no lies. Love defies all reasons,
love has no eyes. But love is not blind, love sees but doesn't mind.
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